Every marriage is like a bed or roses and a fairy tale in the
beginning. Things are always great when couples are starting a married
life but once the responsibilities of married life keeps growing, things
will begin to change. The arrival of children, the demanding jobs and
the growing responsibilities of raising a family could kill the romance
in a marriage. Lack of romance in a marriage can be really dangerous and
before your relationship becomes dull and lifeless you need to bring back the romance in your marriage. The following tips can be very helpful to rekindle the romance and love in your marriage.
You have to know that being romantic is not hard. The everyday life
of being married can be very overwhelming and to fulfil the
responsibilities in the marriage, couples usually become less romantic
and affectionate. They have this thinking that they do not have the
time left for romance with all the responsibilities they have. To bring back the romance in your marriage,
you have to understand that it is not hard to be romantic. Being
romantic does not require too much time, it does not require huge amount
of money and it is not a hindrance in fulfilling your marital
responsibilities. You can be romantic while attending to your job, to
your children and to all your marital responsibilities. Sending a text
message that you love your spouse can be done in a few seconds and
doesn’t cost much but the effect could be so great. A wife receiving a
love message in the middle of running errands at home could be very
happy. A husband receiving a message of love and encouragement before a
difficult task at work could feel inspired and well-loved. Being
romantic is not hard so you do not have to stop being romantic even if
you have tons of responsibilities being a spouse and a parent to your
kids.
Celebrate love. To bring back the romance in your marriage,
do not forget to celebrate special couples’ day. Do not forget to
celebrate Valentine’s Day, wedding anniversaries, birthdays and if
possible even the day you first met. Celebrations do not have to be
extravagant, remember that it is the thought that counts but you are not
violating any rule if you want to have the celebration in the most
extravagant way. The most important thing is do not forget to celebrate
important dates in your relationship and spend time together to remind
how much you love each other through the years.
Say I love you everyday. Some people find it corny but saying the
words “I love you” at least three times a day is important if you want
to bring back the romance in your marriage. Do you get tired of
eating your meals three times a day? What will happen if you will not
feed yourself at least three times a day? Of course you will not get
tired eating because you will starve to death if you failed to feed
yourself. It is the same with marriage. You have to nourish your
marriage with words of love for it not to starve for affection. In this
world of high-tech gadgets, communication is easy. You can send a video
message expressing your love to your spouse and you can call your spouse
to express how much you love him or her.
Little things mean a lot. There are tons of romantic little things that you can do for your spouse to bring back the romance in your marriage.
Compliment your spouse for his or her good looks, massage your spouse’s
back or feet after a tiring day, hold your spouse’s hand or give him or
her a quick kiss in public, sing for him, view the sunset together and
the list goes on and on. You know your spouse very well and you know the
things that will make his or heart flutter so do not hesitate to do
those things for your spouse. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and to
stay together for a long time, you have to nourish your marriage with
love and romance.
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