When men are getting older and still single, there aren’t many women
their age still available for them and so they can’t help but date women
half their age or women in their late 20s or early 30s. For men in
their 40s and those approaching their 50s, dating younger women is
something they cannot avoid. Of course, they are more than happy to meet
younger women, not to mention younger women are more appealing,
exciting and attractive.
While you may consider yourself a competent guy in the field of
dating, the age difference could be a challenge and you may find
yourself wondering if you can handle dating younger women. There are
things that you have to bear in mind to successfully date women younger
than you. Here are some helpful tips in dating younger women:
Let your maturity and wisdom shines. While most
women are complaining how immature most younger men are and how they
wish them to grow up, you have a great advantage by being mature and
full of wisdom due to your age. You have more experience and you’ve
worked hard to reach the maturity and wisdom you have now so let them
work to your advantage. Let those traits shine and put them in display
when dating younger women. Most young women find an accomplished man
full of maturity and wisdom sexy and irresistibly attractive.
Treat her the same way you would treat someone of your own age.
Yes, you are older and mature but this does not mean you have to treat
her like a child. Although she is younger, she’s not a child. Keep in
mind that despite her age, she is also an adult like you so treat her as
one. She is not your daughter who needs preaching or scolding. Dating
in general whether with younger women or with women your age is
challenging enough so why make this dating more stressful by stressing
on the age difference. Treat her as your equal to make the dating more
fun and exciting. She may be younger but she is also an adult and she is
capable of giving you her genuine feelings like any other older woman.
Be honest about your life. Since you are older, it
is normal that you’ve been through a lot and you have more life
experiences than her. Be honest about having kids or being divorced.
Although you do not consider those things as issues, some younger women
may consider them issues so it is better to be honest with her about
those things right from the start. Not being honest with her can make
things more complicated. When dating younger women, do not be afraid to
open up, she may be younger but that does not mean she lacks empathy or
she cannot relate to your situation.
Do not assume that you always have to take good care of her.
She may be younger but she’s not totally inexperienced and unschooled
in everything. She is a grown up independent woman who knows what she
wants and she also has the capability to take good care of you. If she
offer to split the bill on one of your dates, you can politely say that
you want to treat her but if she prefer to split the bill then let her.
However, if you are really uncomfortable splitting the bill, just ask
her to treat you next time. If she is a good cook, let her make you a
great meal to make her feel that she can also take care of you. Dating
younger women doesn’t have to be like raising a daughter. She is your
date, not your daughter.
You can be generous but avoid showing off. Being
older, it is normal to be more financially stable than her. Being a
gentleman, it is normal to be generous when dating younger women but
being generous is different from showing off. Flaunting your fat wallet
or the extravagant things that you can do for her may offend her or it
may push her to take advantage of you. Be realistic with the situation
and being older you should know how to impress women sincerely with your
heart rather than with your fat wallet. There is nothing wrong in
being generous as long as it is coupled with a sincere heart and not
because you just want to show off.
Be confident. There’s nothing to be ashamed of your
age when dating younger women. If she agreed to have a date with you,
she must be tired of inexperienced younger men and she is ready for a
change. You have the advantage being older than the men she used to date
so be confident and take advantage of what you have and what you can
offer. Instead of feeling awkward and uncomfortable, be confident that
you have the means, the experience and the skills to impress a woman
younger than you.
Live a healthy life. In dating younger women, you
have to keep up with their energy and to be able to do that you have to
be healthy. It is important to keep a healthy weight not only to look
good but to be physically fit. Know the best exercise, physical
activities and diet good for your age. It is not too late to live a
healthy life to enjoy dating younger women.
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