Is the lack of confidence around women holding you back in pursuing
the woman of your dreams? You are not alone, many men have this problem.
They get tense, anxious and feel insecure in front of the woman they
adore. If this keeps on happening to you, you won’t be able to act the
way you want and you will appear unattractive to most women. Confidence
is a trait that women admire most and building self confidence around
women is necessary if you want to succeed in dating women.
How to build self confidence around women?
Know that most people lack self confidence. Your
lack of confidence shouldn’t be an excuse for not approaching the woman
you like. You have to know that it is normal for people to feel unsure,
uncomfortable or shy in front of another person especially if this
person is someone you like so you do not have to feel less of a person
for feeling less confident. Who knows, the person that you are afraid to
approach might be as shy as you are. In building self confidence around
women you have to muster your courage and conquer your fears.
Dress like a confident man. In everything we do we
have to set the mood to be able to feel it and get in action. We get
into the mood of sleeping if we are in our panjamas or any sleeping
clothes, we wear school uniforms or working clothes to get into the mood
of going to school or working. It is the same in building confidence
around women, you have to wear a confident persona to get into the mood
and one way of accomplishing that is to dress well and appear confident.
Wear something stylish and classy but be sure you are comfortable and
confident pulling that off. Groom yourself from head to toe. Put
attention to your hairstyle and even to your shoes. Trim your facial
hair including the hair in your nose and cut your fingernails to appear
clean and fresh. Remember that grooming yourself doesn’t mean you have
to spend a fortune. There are ways to look great on a budget.
Believe in yourself. Lack of confidence stems from
not believing in yourself and in building confidence around women, you
have to change your mindset. The way we think affects our behavior. If
you do not believe in yourself, it shows in your action. If you will
start to believe more in yourself, you will start to act more confident.
This is easily said than done but you have to start changing your
mindset if you want to build self confidence around women. If you will
start now and will keep on doing it, you will eventually become better
and will naturally act confident around women. Believe that you are
interesting and likeable and it will show in your actions. Once you
start believing in yourself, women will find you more interesting and
attractive.
Accept that rejection is a normal part of life. Fear
of rejection is the major factor contributing to the lack of confidence
of most men. They do not want to be rejected so they just stay away and
failed to muster the confidence to approach the women they find
attractive. Accept that rejection is a normal part of life and dating or
approaching women is not an exception. Almost everybody gets rejected
but those who succeeded are those who refused to give up. In building
confidence around women, you have to change your outlook about
rejection. Think that in every rejection, you get one step closer to
meeting “the one” for you.
Practice, practice and practice. Self-consciousness
around women can prevent you from acting confident around them but if
you will expose yourself to socialize more with women, this
self-consciousness will be reduced if not eliminated. You probably
already know the common saying that constant practice makes it perfect
and you probably have done that on some of the things that you want to
learn in school or at work. In building confidence around women, you
also have to practice constantly to get the hang of it and to become
more confident. Practice being around women more and socialize with them
more. Practice having conversations with your women friends so that
when the time comes that you have to face the woman you are attracted
to, you will not be too overwhelmed.
Once you’ve learned to be confident around women or in front of
people in general, it will bring positive changes in your life
especially in your social or dating life.
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