If you want to meet, attract, and date more women then you need to
learn how to flirt with women. The best way to do this is learn a few
good flirting techniques and then to go out and practice them. In this
article I will give you a five step process for creating that fun,
flirtatious vibe that women are most attracted to.
1. Get playful
The first characteristic that you want to display to a woman is that
you’re playful. This is because women hate getting stuck talking to
nervous, cautious, and boring guys. As soon as you demonstrate to a
woman that you are fun guy… she will put her guard down and begin
opening up to you more.
2. Tease her
A great way to flirt with a woman is to tease her. As you’re talking
to her look for an opportunity to make fun of something she is doing.
Don’t be mean or cruel, you’re just looking to ‘bust her balls’ about
something silly she has done or said.
3. Use physical teases
After you’ve used verbal teasing to let her know you’re flirting with
her, you can then begin to physically tease her. Physical teases
include making an exaggerated expression as she is telling a story,
sticking your tongue out at her, or pulling your hand away when she goes
to give you high five.
If these sound childish.. they are meant to. The best examples of
flirting are the sort of things you used to do back on the playground in
the fourth grade.
4. Keep her guessing
Women love the suspense of not knowing exactly how you feel about
them. Once you come right out and tell a girl you like her, the sexual
tension that was building between the two of you begins to die down.
This is why it is always better to never quite let her know where she
stands with you. This idea of push/pull is a powerful technique when
flirting with a woman.
5. Escalate the flirtation
Once you’ve established yourself as a fun, flirty type of guy, you
must begin taking the conversation to a more sexual level. This is
because you don’t want to come across as the “funny friend” or “the
flirt”… instead, you want her to begin seeing you as a guy she would
like to get intimate with. The best way to do this is become more
physical. This means you do things like hold her hand, hold eye contact
longer, and get closer to her.
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