Dealing with a break up is not easy especially for women. Whether you
are the one dumped or you are the one who ended the relationship, one
thing is for sure, breaking up is painful. But the good news about break
ups is that it is possible to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend after a
break up.
Rekindling a broken romance is not easy but it is not impossible. The
following tips can be very helpful if you want to get your ex back.
Collect yourself and get back on your feet. Breaking up could damage
your self-esteem and could push you to isolate yourself and suffer from
emotional pain. If you want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, you
have to come to your senses first, get back on your feet and do not let
your emotions rule over you. Go out and meet friends or meet new people.
Focus on yourself first and rebuild your broken self-esteem before
trying to rekindle your broken relationship. Reconciling with an ex is
not that hard if you are already in control of your emotions.
Look back and identify the reasons why the relationship ended. You
cannot repair a broken relationship unless you know what causes it to
get broken in the first place. This is not the time to blame your ex but
this is the time to reflect and look at how you behaved in your
relationship. What have you done wrong? It may help to list down common
complaints or concerns of your ex-boyfriend about you. Making a list
will help you see what went wrong and it can help you think what you
need to do to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend.
Analyze the issues in your relationship. You already listed the
issues in your relationship, if you really want to reconcile with your
ex-boyfriend, now is the time to go through the issues one by one to
know what you can do about those issues. For instance, if too much
jealousy was a constant source of arguments in your relationship, think
of ways on how to manage your emotions and how you won’t be consumed by
too much jealousy again. Jealousy can be beneficial in a relationship
but if it’s too much it can ruin a relationship. If being clingy is your
problem, you may need to widen your network of friends and do not limit
yourself only in the company of your boyfriend. Men can feel suffocated
and may push you away if you always check on them.
Communicate with your ex-boyfriend about reconciliation. Of course
before doing this you have to make sure that you both have cooled down
and emotionally stable. It is also important that you both have to be
committed to work on the issues on your relationship. Face the problems
that led to your break up and work on the solutions to create a better
and happier relationship.
Of course you have to prepare yourself that things may not happen the
way you planned it. So what if things didn’t happen the way to want it?
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